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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Burned Biscuits

When I was a little boy, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad.

I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Baby, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to hug Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people, and I'm sure not the best at much. What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults and choosing to celebrate each other's differences. - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing and lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship, in business or otherwise!

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own." It's not what you have in life, but Who you have that counts.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Excellent advice!

Anonymous said...

This was perfect!!!!! If everyone followed this this world would be a much better place.

Anonymous said...

From a non religious based household I can say not too long ago I too made breakfast for dinner and burned the biscuits. The reason for my burned biscuits was a combination of helping my children with homework and a stove in desperate need of replacement. After a few rants on my part my husband said "babe, don't sweat it I like my biscuits extra crispy". It isn't about what you believe in, it is about how one cares about those around him or her.

Nancy said...

I have one of those husbands too! I thank God for him every day!!

Anonymous said...

I wonder how many "ex-es" look back on the family they had and lost and wish they had a chance to do things differently.

I know one who realized too late it was "who" was in his life that mattered.

It is those among us who value the "who" in our lives that are truly rich.

10001110101 said...

As with my sister.....we spat now and then but we have each other's back and trust each other unconditionally. She would do anything for me and I for her.