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Thursday, April 30, 2009

Blogging Rules Of Etiquette

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Thick skin is probably the number one requirement for anyone who gets into politics. But with the blogging community bringing everyone into the daily political discussion, a lot of folks with thinner skin and easily hurt feelings are finding themselves offended by the harsh rhetoric that now passes for political banter these days. This blog is no exception. I'm shocked at how easily readers fly off the handle or launch into angry tirades, often about racial issues, when they could easily tone it down.

But it's not just here. I was accused recently of resorting to "racist journalism" because I posted an item on a Latino site in which I used the phrase "illegal immigrant." On another site, I've seen tennis players -- tennis players! -- deploy the race card because they're upset about a team from an East Dallas public court dominating a bunch of rich private clubs from the north in USTA league competition. A news story about legislation to punish people who run over pedestrians somehow prompted an angry discussion of illegal immigrants. This trend is exacerbated by politicians like John Wiley Price labeling as racists those who oppose a city-funded convention center hotel.

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There's gotta be a better way of communicating, especially considering the growing popularity of blogs. Should blogs start using a tighter censorship policy to enforce a more civil discourse (something short of Frontburner's all-out ban on reader comments, which Rod posted an item about last week)? If not, what's the best solution to keep blog discussions on topic, tasteful and respectful? I don't mean that we can't criticize one another, but I don't understand why it has to get so nasty.

Here's what I would suggest:

1. If a reader strays from the topic of discussion, the comment doesn't get posted.
2. If the blog topic is about race, then readers as well as blog moderators must be extra-vigilant about postings. We can all agree to disagree, and we can all accept fair criticism. But when the criticism turns offensive, crude or too broadly sweeping in its characterizations, then it's time to take the comment down.
3. Unnecessary labeling of a commenter -- "That's typical of you right-wing fascists," or "Exactly what I'd expect of a socialist liberal like you," when it's not directly related to the topic of discussion deserves to be removed from the blog.
4. Ask people to abide by a simple rule: If you wouldn't talk to your parents, children or your clergy-person this way, then it probably doesn't belong on a blog where it'll be read by total strangers. Keep it respectful.

Does this amount to censorship? Maybe so. First and foremost, I'm asking people to self-censor. Be your own editor, in other words. If we don't start to abide by some common rules of decorum, then this and other blogs are going to start driving away more readers than we attract.

Editors Notes: I like this way of thinking. Your opinion is important and I'd like to hear your thoughts on these rules.

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good morning, Joe. I absolutely agree with you on this one. Good rules, fair rules, and easy to follow.
Cami

Anonymous said...

Best post ever!!

Dave C said...

this sounds like some typical right-wing rules of obediance for a jewish irishman on Sunday walking his dog yelling 'go screw yourself' to the old ladies!!

LOL Just wanted to see if I could break all the rules in one sentence! I truly like the rules, especailly #3-I'm getting sick of hearing "people labeling." Commenters should be respected for their comments without being acused of things they possibly aren't. However, if somebody says something ridiculously stupid I think that "IDIOT" should always be on reserve for those who deserve it! lol

Reconciled1 said...

I don't see why mature adults can't have an intelligent conversation without childish name calling. It is funny how the word anon makes people feel invinsible. Behind the guise of no one knowing who I am, I can say anything. I'm sure you guard some of the comments and I wouldn't want to even guess what is said about you personally. I've posted my personal feelings about things, re-thought them over and deleted them, then verbally attacked about my tattoos and that being my biggest accomplishment in life. I mean come on, thats pretty petty but I guess that was their best defense. I guess their way is When you can't disagree intellegently, attack personally. I say, its your blog, your peragative what gets posted. If you don't think it's appropriate, don't post it. Your right as the owner/ moderator of the blog. There's a lot of other blogs that immediately post without moderation, they can post their jibberish there.

Anonymous said...

I like the concept of self-censorship. Maybe it'll also do something to encourage some to better express themselves and promote ideas and their discussions, rather than just flaming and leaving only a bad odor behind.

Reconciled1 said...

Dave C. -and maybe FOOL?

Anonymous said...

totally agree

Anonymous said...

Joe,
Good idea. There's another point in favor of more civil discourse: Such expression tends to be taken more seriously by readers and may be more likely to evoke responses in a similar tone. Blogs enable and encourage "conversation" among a broad cross section of our population and from a wider geographic area than we may realize and are thus to be encouraged.

Mardela said...

I strongly agree. I've said this to some others and it's time everyone shows some self respect.

It's a tactic of the weak to try and bring someone down to there level with insults and trash talking.

This and every blog should be the place that sets the example for how decent debate should be.

Dave C said...

I agree Reconciled1! Fool, Moron Idiot, GW. Bush...oops that slipped...should all be put on reserve for those who deserve it. I'm pretty sure that Joe is a fan of this as he loves his "idiot" slinging!

Anonymous said...

I agree. Also think that there are a few comments under breaking news from last night that may fall under this category.

Anonymous said...

If you do as the first one says, your comments will be too low. I don't see you (Joe) sticking with this.

grannydragon said...

Works for me. I am so tired of the name-calling and petty bickering I see on blogs. If people can't express opposing views in a civil manner, let them go back to pimping out their MySpace pages. Oops, was that uncivil?

Tim Chaney said...

10-4

Anonymous said...

We all reap what we sow. Folks get what they deserve

doug wilkerson said...

I like it just the way it is.

Anonymous said...

if blogs followed those rules we'd never see a post from the liberal left.

Anonymous said...

Ahhhhhhhhh go freak youselfs. You want the type to be in pink ?? Or maybe lime green. Joe whats next we all must end our post and i hope i did not offend anyone. This is not the Andy Rooney hour or Paul harvey. It is 2009 and times have changed. Maybe we should just put a disclaimer at the post. Dont read this if you are a major puss. If you cant stand racisism and labeling read the daily slime. Bunch of liberal arse kissing crybabies. This is not Obamahas Momma's Site.


Well yea I guess I agree.

Go ahead put a singles page on while you at it. Dont forget for the fellas in Willards the "Men seeking Sheep" section.

Hmmmmmmmm where is all this going.

Anonymous said...

Teachers, Leave those kids alone.

Dave C said...

Anonymous said...
if blogs followed those rules we'd never see a post from the liberal left.

11:26 AM

Under Rule #3, We also wouldn't have seen this unnecessary comment so again, I'm for it!

Anonymous said...

I agree with your set of rules and they would not be considered censorship, I don't believe. Makes total sense to have commentors watch what they are saying to or about someone else!

Anonymous said...

11:26: Your comment is the biggest joke of 2009. The radical right has been slamming people and relentlessly insulting folks who don't think like themselves (as you just did)on these blogs since their inception. There's certainly been some of that from the extreme left as well, but no comparison. You guys win that contest hands down.

Anonymous said...

All and All, it's just another brick in the Wall.