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149 comments:
There are 3 sides to every story. Keep that in mind. Willards is one of the BEST schools in Wicomico county. As a parent at Willards I will not say it's perfect because that would simply be unheard of. I am simply saying before throwing stones remember 3 sides to a story.
Why would someone lie about being bullied? There is fear when you speak out.....that the bullying will increase. My daughter was bullied too...and she was shy and didn't do anything to be bulled about. Nothing was done to her tormentors! Bullying needs to STOP !!!!! I don't know how this poster was printed up ......but I think it is great!
Yes, stop the bullying.
Tell the board of Ed you do not support their liberal bullying anymore.
Bullshit^^^^ who would make this up, seriously?????
WAY too many teachers in our area have a "Just Deal With It" attitude and do little or nothing to help bullied students.
Bullying is a SERIOUS issue and ALL of our teachers need to take bullying incidents Seriously NOW and take action to prevent bullying and start imposing suspensions upon bullies.
Every child has the right to an education without having to worry or be afraid! Even if there are 100 sides she has the right to be protected. It goes on in every school every day! Bless you for having the courage to stand up!
above did not say made up, said "there are 3 sides to every story" BIG DIFFERENCE
Willards is a fantastic school. As a parent I love the school and teachers. Please remember it is quite difficult to reprimand a he said she said situation. I do not agree with the negative attention being targeted on our school.
Willards is a great school.
create a list of the bullies and visit the parents (or parent) of each and put them on notice if it continues, consequences will be addressed. I had this type of problem at North Salisbury and gave the principal the opportunity to correct the problem or I would. The bullie was sent away.
I absolutely can not believe the comments defending the school. How about defending this little girl! Something had to happen. It warrants an investigation. Wake up people! Bullying is a silent killer! How many upstanding schools across the nation have had suicide because of bullying. One right in Delaware last year!
I had an incident at Salisbury Middle. They addressed it immediately!!
Bullying may take place in any school...even great ones. Willards School is not exempt. If this little girl is being bullied the school should put a stop to it by suspending the bullies. I hate bullies and it's time to stop them.
There is something going on in the family dynamics of the aggressor/aggressors for this level of harassment to be occurring in the elementary school level.
Words do speak louder than actions. What are the words spoken by the aggressor? Knowing those will be the beginning of getting to the bottom of this so it will end.
The whole point of this is to help this little girl and bring awareness to bullies! There ate three sides to every story but I don't see the school trying to defend what they have ywt to address on the appropriate way! People who haven't dealt with it can say what they will untill the situation happens directly to them!
This post is a great idea.My hope is that more will follow to highlight our various local school policies regarding bullying.
anonymous 10:28, I always say, "you can't fix something your not aware of".
This is what Salisbury News is all about, the things your NOT going to hear elsewhere.
Some have come on here complaining because we publish things that well, piss people off. They claim to be "victims".
At the highest level, former Mayor Tilghman gave it a go in court against me and LOST. The honorable Judge saw right through the BS and sided in my favor.
The TRUTH hurts and matters such as this deserves THEIR day in Court as well. The Court Of Public Opinion.
Whether Willards is a great school or not is irrelevant. Bullying occurs in EVERY school. All of us were either bullies and/or were bullied in school...ALL OF US. Admittedly I participated in a little bullying and was a victim sometimes myself.
Those who are posting comments "attempting" to justify this bullying incident because Willards is an "Oh So Great!" school need to yank off their rose-colored glasses while swallowing a dose or 2 reality pills so they can have a better view and more realistic thoughts.
I don't understand how anyone can say they don't appreciate the negativr attention the school is receiving when this post is due to negative attention this little girl has been receiving at that school!
The problem is the fault of public schools and the bogus BS they regurgitate. Out of one side of their mouths they claim to embrace diversity. On the other side they do everything in their power to socially engineer children to think and be exactly alike. If a child is different the are immediately given some kind of label. This invites bullying.
What difference how many sides there are to any story? Stop trying to justify the crap and deal with the results. As much as I defend the good people of the shore, there are still plenty of boneheads to go around.
I don't care what ANYONE says, this article has SKYROCKETED is views. It's getting incredible attention, as it deserves just that.
It doesn't matter how many sides of the story there are or how great the school is. What matters is how Mikayla is made to feel. By nothing being done she is made to feel that her feelings don't matter & the others actions are OK. Stop concentrating on what friggin school it is & remember that some sweet, smart little girl is feeling something is wrong with her. No child deserves to fell less than.
To the Family of this wonderful child. You should know, in a matter of a couple of hours this article has surpassed the top article over the last two days. Let me assure you, we had some pretty big articles yesterday and I'm extremely pleased so many people are viewing yours this morning. It deserves nothing less.
Our hope is that Dr. Fredericksen will personally inquire about this situation and make things right. However, it takes YOU contacting the BOE and NOT depend on this article to resolve it. Yes, you might become upset about this situation but as I stated earlier, Dr. Fredericksen can't fix something he's not aware of.
Remember, this could very easily be your child.
The same thing (bullying/harassment) is beginning to happen at Stephen Decatur High School. A small group of "teens" are ruining the ability of good students to concentrate on learning.
No child deserved to b bullied point blank!!!!!!!!!
The BOE should look on the top left hand corner of SBYNews and notice that Google/Blogger has already selected this article as one of the top 5 for the entire week and it's only been up for a few hours. I have absolutely NO control over that selection. Just so you know.
12:03-Drugs are increasingly becoming a major problem at Stephen Decatur High School as well...especially with heroin.
Another widespread problem, not only within schools on the Eastern Shore but in schools throughout the U.S., is that many of our teachers are bullies who bully our children.
I think the problem is the schools won't enforce their own rules. We have children in 3 different schools in the county and sadly bullying goes on everyday, in every school. The parents of the bullied kids are often told it will be handled, but nothing ever happens.
It sickens me that there are policies that could help this child and others, but bc the admins are afraid of how their schools will look, nothing is done.
My 7th grade son had to write an editorial for his English class. The assignment was "If you could change one thing in school what would it be?" Two would be selected to run in the school newspaper. While his wasn't selected, I think its very relevant.
Bullying: It Must Be Stopped
Over 3.2 million students are victims of bullying each year. You may even know someone that has been bullied. There is a lot of bullying going on in our schools ,on the playground, and even in our own homes. We should put an end to verbal and physical bullying before we all become victims.
Many people think that bullying is no big deal. Twenty-five percent of teachers see nothing wrong with bullying and think it is nothing more than messing around; boys will be boys, girls are so cliquish; pick your excuse. With teachers that DO witness someone being bullied, they only take action to stop the abuse about 4% of the time. Talk about a lack of interest in their students well being. Over 160,000 students skip school each day because they are being bullied. Think about the education they are missing!
Repeated bullying has led to dropouts, shootings, and even suicide! Of all of the school shootings that have taken place in this country, 75% of the shooters cited being the victim of a bully as a reason they reached for a gun. Also, 10% of students that have been victims of bullying dropped out of school so they wouldn’t have to face their tormentors anymore. Most importantly, kids who have been severely bullied may commit suicide to escape their problems. Not the best solutions in my opinion. So, basically, bullying is bad, so lets end it!
As we all know, bullying doesn’t just happen face-to-face. Technology - smart phones, laptops and tablets have made it easier to bully a person then ever before. 75% of kids have visited websites that are dedicated to bashing other students anonymously. Talk about waste of space! Technology makes it easier to harass someone from a distance. Most of these kids would not have the nerve to approach another student and repeat to their face what they said online. Surprisingly, only 10% of cyberbully victims will tell an adult about a bullying incident over the web.
So now that you know a bit more about bullying lets all work together and strive to end it for good! Confront the bully, and make sure the bullying stops.
Parents need to teach their kids that making fun of another student in person or online is wrong. Teachers and administrators need to enforce school policy with a zero tolerance attitude, just like they have for weapons. When you come right down to it words can hurt just as much as a knife or a bullet, so lets put a stop to bullying today!
Awesome piece! You should be very proud!
I just overheard an employee at Willards say "this is just stirring things up".My thoughts were that it obviously isn't stirring things up enough.It should however be viewed as a blanket statement for all schools as opposed to just Willards.
What many of you don't know is that the mother of this child has created havoc for her own child. Making her own child a victim from her actions, not that of others. She has repeatedly rant and raved about one thing or another throughout the school year to which all have been unfounded and because of her mother's actions this innocent child has now withdrawn from her friends and teachers at school which was her only refuge from her unloving, hostile, crowded living environment. This child's own grandmother uses racial slurs against her and her siblings. The mother of this child is always playing the "pity me" card to no avail. Now she has created this uproar with no substantial proof! Kudo's to the Mom. If anything does come out this I hope that someone from Child Protective Services investigates this child's home environment and current living conditions. I totally agree that bullying should have a zero tolerance at any level!!!!! Before passing judgement and making derogatory statements against a school or it's staff please know all of the FACTS. I am positive that if this was truly a case of bullying that the school and staff would immediately and swiftly take all necessary actions required.
Am I seeing this correctly? Someone is really attacking the Childs mother for being active in her childs education? This has got to be someone from the school! When is it causing "havoc" to voice your concerns? I guess anytime someone speaks up its a disturbance? Because this mother is protecting her child its her fault she is being bullied!?! This comment just goes to show that maybe its not just the students...sounds like some of the staff has become resentful towards this family because the mother isn't afraid to speak up.
Joe,
I'm not sure it's appropriate to spew this CHILD'S whole life story on a this popular site. I just feel 12:43's comment will give the kid more crap to put up with. If the commenter is so interested they should contact DCS, not tell all the kids business on here.
It's honestly sad how ppl blame the mother for the child being bullied. If that is the case, then it's obvious that it's filtering from the parents of the child bullying.
12:59 is correct.Furthermore,the school is obviously all over this because the comments are coming from within.
anonymous 12:59, While you have every right to your opinion, I also believe it is the parent/guardian's right to make that choice.
My belief is that they have exhausted all other attempts to get this matter corrected ad have failed.
I have received numerous complaints like this one over the years and quite frankly I did my best to keep it off the Blog so as the parents could work things out with the BOE first.
Finally, I highly doubt ANY ONE will be messing with this child after today. Let's praise the parents for hitting this head on, on behalf of their child AND the rest of the parents and children locally experiencing these same issues with bullying.
To 12:43 #1 - Sometimes issues need to be "stirred up" in order to get resolved &
To 12:43 #2 - Has the child been pushed, stabbed with paper clips (which are both considered ASSAULT by the way) and tormented or not?
to 12:59 - Perhaps instead of this leading to "the kid more crap to put up with" as you state, maybe instead it will put an end to her being bullied immediately and the final result will lead to the child living a happier & more peaceful life in the near future.
I'm not talking about post. I'm talking about 12:43's comment putting all kinds of this little girls home life business on here.
I have no idea for sure but what 12:43 said may be a factor. Usually victims of bullying are also products of a chaotic home life. This chaos leads to low self esteem and other characteristics which makes them a target for other children , who themselves tend to come from chaotic surroundings.
I am close friends with the mother of this child and for someone to come on here and attack the mother, thats just wrong. This little girl has been teased and picked on, thats the issue we need to be worried about. No one is putting down the school but something needs to be done about this. The Board of Education needs to step in and get this handled. I personally dont have kids but just like the mother I was teased in school and bullied and nothing was ever done and my mother did the same thing and went to the school and complained until I was switched out but enough is enough and something needs to be done!!!! Stop the bullying now before it gets out of hand. Stop attacking this lil girls parents!!! Thats just down and low!!!
Mikayla is a well rounded, well mannered, straight A student with nearly perfect attendance and perfect reading minutes. She is also the reining Little Miss Delmarva 2014. She is hardly withdrawn. She's continuously awarded for good behavior. She also dedicates her recess to help with the down syndromed boys at the school. SO I ASK THE PERSON SPEAKING OF HER HOME LIFE DO YOUR CHILDREN HAVE THEAE ACCOMPLISHMENTS? HAVE YOU HAD A CHILD REMOVED FROM YOUR HOME? And her most recent bullying incident was having boys chant continuously" Ha Ha you're half black!" That is bullying!!!
Chanel, While I do think the comment was way beyond what we needed to hear and know, it does have a valid underlying point. That point is, there is something going on that makes the child vulnerable to bullying. This also goes to the one/ones doing the bullying. In order for a solution to be ironed out, both sides must be honest and address the whole situation in order for a solution to be successful.
Of course the bullying must stop but if Mikayla does have certain characteristics which make her susceptible to bullying they must be addressed and corrected in order to prevent future problems in her life.
anonymous 1:57, BS! As far as I can recall, each President over the past 20 plus years has stood up against bullying, including their Wives.
First, the teachers need to have the fear of God put in them for this to come to an immediate end.
They then need to put the fear of God in the Students by letting ALL of them know, this will NOT go on.
I have known Mikayla since she was a baby. I am a local parent and I am the one who made the poster seen above. I was not asked by Mikayla's mom - I did it because it breaks my heart to hear that this is happening. Mikayla often gives up her recess to help with one of the special needs children at Willards Elementary. She's an amazing, selfless child. When I asked Mikayla's mom if it would be okay for me to use her photo/name she said yes, that Mikayla actually wanted to make a video to raise awareness about bullying. What an incredible child! Her parents have done everything they can - they were told the children involved in the latest bullying incident would be kept from recess for a week, yet, yesterday they were participating in recess. They didn't even have one day of consequences.
To the ignorant, narrow minded, hateful person that claims Mikayla has a terrible homelife, a grandmother that uses racial slurs, a mom who has subjected her to problems ... take your BULLYING SOMEWHERE ELSE. YOU (and probably YOUR CHILDREN) are whats' wrong with the world today. GO AWAY! Mikayla has amazing parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends. You're unsubstantiated, mean, awful statements just go to show what a miserable, pathetic person you are.
Mikayla you are an amazing, beautiful, smart, polite little girl. I hope that this situation pushes your bullies into a shameful, embarrassed silence and that they leave you and the other kids alone.
It takes a lot of courage to do what Mikayla did. A lot of kids don't speak up to their teachers and parents for fear of being a tattletale or that they bullying will get worse. When that happens the situation sometimes ends tragically - let's all be thankful that there is a chance to change these bullies now while they are still very young. Hopefully they don't grow up to be a narrow minded, coward like the anonymous poster from above.
1:27 - Whether it's a factor or not. What exactly is the point of your post? How how do children being "products of a chaotic home life." and "This chaos leading to low self esteem" justify a child to be bullied? Please clarify.
Nicole, please ignore the nasty comments. There is another Blogger out there who LIVES to sit on his computer and make such anonymous comments to stir the pot. Then there are friends of Mayor Ireton who do the same in the hopes of getting a racist comment through so them can run to the NAACP and complain about me.
We do our best but sometimes one of those nasty comments comes through and we apologize.
These are people with pure mental conditions.
If children are using racial slurs, I believe there is paperwork the school has to do and a procedure to follow because that is considered a hate crime. Maybe someone in school administration knows the actual regulations and can post them.
Andy, I never said it justified the bullying. The point of my post is that the victims are more often than not a victim due to some characteristic they possess which makes them a target. A lot of times they are withdrawn for some reason or another.
I'll use the example of having a parent in jail which unfortunately has made many many children victims of bullying.
You have to stop the bullying then work on both the victims and the bully's issues. The low self esteem the victim feels due to the parent in prison won't go away when the bullying stops and more often than not leads to things like substance abuse and other high risk behaviours.
It's just not as easy as getting the bullying to stop without going into the root of the problem because bullying is generational and a victim's children tend to become victims as well as the bully's becoming bullies themselves.
Suspending the kid is just putting a bandage on the problem.
anonymous 2:35, did you not read all of the comments about this wonderful child above? It's obvious you did not and I suggest you go back and look at them. Your comment is out of line.
Are any of these people making assumptions about her home life and character Dr's? Phsycologosts? Psychiatrists? I highly doubt it. Regardless of home life or character bullying is unacceptable in any form and should be handled accordingly! The school obviously doesn't want to take appropriate measures and actually follow through! Kudos to Mikalya! Her and her mom are amazing and brave for standing up and doing what a lot of people would just brush under the rug to avoid confrontation.
So its okay for the little girl to get bullied and all i see is you all defending the school. SMH just when i thought people couldnt get any more stupid. I pray for this little girl and her family!
If this child is being taunted because of her racial diversity, seems the staff and students need a lesson in racial diversity. My daughter is in 5th grade and though there has been bulling I haven't heard about any racial slurs such as 1:56 posted. The school she attends does have diversity. That type of taunted would never be allowed.
2:35 - Bullies, and bullied victims alike, come in the form of all shapes, sizes & colors from a wide variety of backgrounds. The main theme of this “open forum” is how to put an end to bullying once and for all, NOT about how bullies and their victims are generated or their characteristics and what types of parents they have.
While suspension from school may not be a “cureall” to cease bullying, it will definitely be effective and part of the solution.
I can say I know issues may arise with any child with a absent parent for what ever reason,(jail, death, divorce etc.)BUT this doesn't give any reason to accept ANY behavior from another child attacking another child. I also know no matter where, or how we have to live due to circumstances sometimes beyond our control is a reason to ACCEPT another child attacking another child. Where there is a action there is always a reaction. I am sure they have contacted the school, then BOE. This should have been done at school level and with a parent meeting with all children involved. My children are from this area and the community is small and everyone knows everyone so I am sure it is hard on family as this is BIG news in a small school. I hope this child can go to school and not have more issue now . I hope this will end with a smile on this little girls face. I hope the family and children that have done any of these things will see that small community's can have BIG voices too.
I am the one who contacted Mr. Albero. I also know Mikayla and her family. They are very well mannered and respectable children. There mother revolves her life around her children. I know for a fact that she has been dealing with this situation for a while now. She has made contact with the school. She has even played with the thought of home schooling. Why should she have to? I asked her mom if I could seek Joe's help. She had no clue. So how was she seeking attention? Thank you Mr. Albero for being that families voice. Thank you for all the good you do!
ZERO TOLERANCE FOR BULLIES!! and if it's racially motivated its a hate crime. Stabbed with paper clips shoved by a teacher. You're lucky her mother is handling this well. Me I'd be IN JAIL for beating SOMEONE senseless. The idiots who are blaming her mother or homelife should think about that, how'd they be handling this at this point when same kids are going unpunished and poor girl is probably afraid to go to school.
You people that continue to defend the actions of the bullies and the lack of action on behalf of the school have some issues. You should be ashamed of yourselves. I've known Mikaylas mother for many years and she is raising a wonderful, bright, beautiful little girl that gets picked on because of her skin tone. How very sad.
Joe: I think there is always two sides to every story - I know for a fact that some kids are accused of bullying that really are not guilty and like others have commented parents use this to their advantage i.e… if the child is doing bad in school it's because he/she is being bullied. For me I not really sure what the true definition of bulling is anymore. Perhaps we collectively should define it first and then work towards a resolution. I also firmly believe that children can be persuaded to believe they have been bullied their parents persuasions.
2:35 - Bullies, and bullied victims alike, come in the form of all shapes, sizes & colors from a wide variety of backgrounds. The main theme of this “open forum” is how to put an end to bullying once and for all, NOT about how bullies and their victims are generated or their characteristics and what types of parents they have.
While suspension from school may not be a “cureall” to cease bullying, it will definitely be effective and part of the solution.
I have known the Mother since she was a child, and for someone to come on here bashing her and her parenting skills who really have NO IDEA who she is or anything about Mikayla is beyond ridiculous. Take it elsewhere! Mikayla is a wonderful, beautiful, well educated, well mannered and behaved, caring little girl and not to mention reigning Little Miss Delmarva. Bullying in any shape or form is unnecessary and will not be tolerated by any parent, and I commend her Mother for doing what every parent should in this situation. Mikayla is a brave little girl to get this out and in the open since nothing is being done to protect her, no matter what her parents have done to get the situation under control and taken care of. Anyone who had the nerve to come on here and bash this sweet little girl and question the parenting of the wonderful Mother that she is whom would do anything for her children, should be absolutely ashamed of yourselves. This is about stopping the abuse this little girl has had to endure, and like most people would, I agree that this needs to stop! For those who claim that she must have something wrong in her home life and it's her own fault for this happening to herself...you have NO IDEA what this wonderful child is like, and maybe if you would read the posts from some of us who know this family, you would see clearly like we do. Sending my love and prayers for this wonderful family I have been blessed to know.
Andy-You don't put a bandaid on any problem and expect it to stop!
This is why problems escalate and are rarely solved. Suspension is only part of the solution BUT unless it's done in tandem with other measures it's useless. Other measures may include some sort of parental counseling with and without the child bully present. As far as suspension in general---
The problem lies with the schools and new regs regulating what a child can be suspended for. A few yrs ago MD in their ultimate wisdom attempted to lower the rate and instead of actually lowering the rate made it harder on a school to suspend, which effectively lowered the rate but not in a very productive way.
Yes, Mikayla was persuaded to believe she was stabbed with the sharp end of a paper clip a day was persuaded to believe half her class was chanting "you're half black!" -- are you insane? Mikayla isn't an infant - she is incredibly smart and articulate and she didn't ask to be bullied. It truly makes me dumbfounded how people form such irrational opinions. Mikayla is being bullied. End of story. There is nothing to figure out other than how to make it stop - not just for her but for ALL KIDS being bullied. Why don't you go look up some statistics on bullying before you make another stupid statement like "maybe we need a definition of bullying".
@ 3:35
here you go...
Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively impose domination over others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception, by the bully or by others, of an imbalance of social or physical power. Behaviors used to assert such domination can include verbal harassment or threat, physical assault or coercion, and such acts may be directed repeatedly towards particular targets. Justifications and rationalizations for such behavior sometimes include differences of class, race, religion, gender, sexuality, appearance, behavior, strength, size or ability..
definition of bullying. And seriously "children can be persuaded to believe they have been bullied by their parents perusasions?" What would your reaction be if your child was stabbed with school supplies on purpose? rediculous!
Word up, stop the hateing on little Mikayla. She might grow up warped and vote for a president like Obama.
Sorry this is just East Sider behavior. I am sure a certain someone will show up at the school with photographer in tow and read a book or two with her. It is sad there are poeple on this earth that dont get it. One God One people. Anyone who lives outside that is a sinner.
Joe had a good idea about contacting Dr. Fredericksen. He is probably very aware of bullying and how difficult it can be to hold bullies accountable for what they do. Bullies lie, victims and witnesses are often intimidated. Sadly, it's a familiar story.
Once and for all 3:05 and others. No where has anyone even hinted that bullying is okay under any circumstance. I don't know what you all are reading but it's not been said in these comments that is it excusable. The fact is that for the best interest of the child being bullied, the reason why needs to be taken into account also as well as the bully being dealt with. It's called being an overall solution to the problem and addressing it head on and not the easy way out which is to just suspend the bully.
How Mikayla reacts to the bully could be a prime cause of the bullying. If she is sensitive a shrewd educator could turn this into a positive making the bully feel like a complete louse without antagonizing him more, which in turn gives Mikayla herself a valuable life lesson on how to handle some people instead of getting upset about their actions.
My son bullied someone once...ONCE. Where is the bullying kids parents. I'm sure they know their kid is a jerk, so why do allow this behaviour from him/her. And since everyone finds it appropriate to berate this little girls mom and homelife, whats up with the bullies moms and homelives. What is the "underlying horrific issues" there beside the kid is an a-hole.
In response to Nicole's statement:
#1 -The comment made at 12:43 was not made by a school staff member or even a member of the Board of Education. It was made by someone who knows this family and all the dilemma within.
#2 -Your name calling and "bashing" clearly shows that you yourself are in fact are a BULLY! GREAT EXAMPLE and you made the poster! Really!
#3 - No one said that any school official made racial slurs towards this child. It was the child's very OWN grandmother which she lives with.
#4 -This is NOT a personal attack on the child's family in any sense of the word. This is an open forum to make comments. There are many sides to this story and the facts should be known to all so that people can make up their own mind.
#5 -Maybe it is the parent (Mother) that has been bullying the school system and not the child being the victim.
#6 -YES BULLYING is a very SERIOUS situation in our society and should have a ZERO tolerance.
#7 -If one thing comes out of this it should be more awareness towards this problem of bullying at ALL LEVELS!!
#8 -"Bullying" refers to verbal, physical, or mental acts committed by a student to harass, intimidate, or cause harm to another student. Bullying may include verbal threats, physical assault, intimidation, or other forms of inappropriate behavior, such as harassment, disorderly conduct, and acts which disturb the peace. Because bullying on school campuses is a growing concern, parents, school districts, and students should be aware of the serious violations and violence that may occur as a result of student bullying, and how it may be addressed.
Anti-Bullying State Laws
A number of states have passed laws to address intimidation, harassment, and bullying in schools. These "anti-bullying" laws are meant to promote school safety, improve truancy rates, and reduce school violence, among other things. The law specifically requires schools to create certain policies for prevention, training, and enforcement concerning behavior that may lead to bullying. Students who violate anti-bullying provisions face suspension and expulsion; whereas schools and districts may face large monetary fines arising out of civil liability claims.
Examples of specific behavior that constitutes bullying include:
Wearing gang paraphernalia and other clothing meant to intimidate or exclude another;
Spreading rumors or posting degrading, harmful, or explicit pictures, messages, or information using social media or other forms of electronic communication (also known as "cyber-bullying").
Taunting or making sexual slurs about a person's gender orientation or sexual status;
Name-calling, joking, or making offensive remarks about a person's religion, gender, ethnicity, or socioeconomic status; and
Physical acts of bullying, such as punching, slapping, or tripping someone.
- See more at: http://education.findlaw.com/student-conduct-and-discipline/bullying.html?DCMP=GOO-EDU_Gen-Bullying&HBX_PK=what+to+do+about+bullying#sthash.26WnfqA9.dpuf
What's everybody upset about. Our country has a bully in the White House. Bottom line; if you are bullied "stand your ground". When I was 12 years old, I was bullied by a guy older and bigger than I. He beat me up three times before I finally got the best of him. We are friends today because he knows I can kick his butt.
Part of the problem is a child being taunted because they are biracial is stepping into "unexplored" grounds and is a major problem now a days esp in inner city schools. There are a million books on raising a biracial child but they focus mainly on the cultural aspects. Someone needs to ask the boys why it concerns them that she is part black. The racial overtones are apparent.
If you email the one on there that says ROWilley, you can guarantee nothing will be done. The only thing he cares about is your social status and if you make enough money.If he thinks your not good enough he will only talk bad about you and push you to the curb. I know because he did it to me, I wasn't worth his time because I don't make enough money.
I know exactly who made the statement - I never said it was member of the school board so I think you have your comments mixed up. Also, thanks for clearing up what bullying is - pretty sure I wasn't unclear as to whether or not Mikayla is being bullied. Her mother isn't bullying the school system, you're really reaching for whatever crumbs you can get ... anything to take the spotlight off the bullying problem, right? While you're on your soapbox, why don't you post your real name? I don't have time for people like you, I'm busy trying to help remedy the situation - not point fingers at her mom for trying to help her daughter.
I can not even fathom that the above person has children. If so I pray that they are not a victim of bullying. Does it matter who or what there home life concerns? Is it possible to bully the school system? Your criticized if your not involved enough and now there are complaints with being to involved? The point is a little girl made the complaint and no one took it seriously.. Point blank.
12:43 Hardly knows the family! This I know personally!
Thank you for posting this! It is quite obvious race is an issue!
4:14....So because the parent is a Jackass its ok to treat the child this way?
Myself, I attribute being bullied in grade school as a foundation for my character today. With help, advice, and assistance on how to cope - how to handle the situation - one can turn it into a positive life-experience, and one can be better for it.
It really is amazing someone has the audacity to call the Mother a name, when either you don't know her or are just talking out of your @**. Let alone you post anonymously! Not brave enough to let people see who you are, but are quite the bully yourself throwing names around. No need for the likes of you to even grace us with your presence on this post. The ones like me who post anonymously, have great things to say, and actually know the family and the situation to be able to say these things, don't feel the need to have to post our names because we aren't here to draw attention to ourselves like others who do on other social media with their hatred and nasty comments about a child....(and yes we all know who you are), but instead we are doing this to make this situation improve for Mikayla and every other child who is bullied. ZERO TOLERANCE means exactly that!
What a beautiful little girl. The bullies are probably jealous of her & are trying to bring her down to their level. Bunch of jerks!
No I don't think you know who made these comments! NO ONE is taking the spot light off the situation - I'm just putting the facts out there so everyone who reads this can understand the WHOLE story just not your version!
YOU are not the child's parent and really what right or FACTS do you have to substantiate your allegations? Were you there? Did you personally witness these occurrences in school? Do YOU know for a fact that the school failed to take the appropriate disciplinary actions needed? or are you going by what your friend said happened? Simple questions, simple answers.
Also, if this has been happening repeatedly, I being a Grandparent am very glad that it has not affected this poor child because if it had then her grades would be falling, her attitude to help others would be lost and her overall self esteem would be gone. For this I am grateful!!
In closing, what it is really that this parent is trying to get from all this media attention? Honestly?
This is news for the whole Wicomico Co and other Counties to see , why isn't it good enough for the local news stations. Maybe the mom or others who have helped make this NEWS of the day, and week can take this to ALL the public eyes too see. Maybe this would make others going thru same problem come forth. Then lets see how many calls go into BOE.
If she was White, this would be a non-issue. This is just more pandering to minorities, who already get a disproportionate amount of free government handouts and privileges. I'm not rayciss, but just stating the facts.
5:50 Oh no you didn't! The child never asked to be born malato, this IS about how children learn racism at home in most cases and nobody should ever have to tolerate it, this isn't Nazi Germany. Especially in a place that is supposed to educate people.
Anonymous 5:50: I'm getting the impression from those posters who seem to be familiar with the situation that if the child were white rather than biracial, she wouldn't be a target. BTW, learn to spell. It's "racist," not "rayciss."
@ 5:50 Yeah your right, your not "rayciss" at all, more like illiterate. How is that not racist when your pretty much claiming government assistance are handouts for just black people or bi-racial, because if the child were white there would be no issue? Astonishing what your opinion is of government handouts, because I see many white people in line with their government food cards as well, and see many bullying issues with white children as well. Small minded people should keep their "rayciss" opinions to their self, especially when it has NOTHING to do with this issue of bullying. Yes, I'am white, love Mikayla, know her family personally, and will continue to support her 110%!!
Let me turn your questions around: YOU are not the child's parent and really what right or FACTS do you have to substantiate your allegations that it did NOT happen? Were you there? Did you personally witness these occurrences DID NOT in school? Do YOU know for a fact that the school TOOK the appropriate disciplinary actions needed?
The child's mother didn't ask for any media attention. You are playing devils advocate for no reason other than to ASSUME Mikayla is lying. Your opinions are unfounded, irrelevant and disgusting. Keep hiding behind your anonymous posts. Your comments only make a stronger case for stopping bullies of ALL AGES.
Black or White or any color you can get help from Government.WHY DID YOU BRING THIS UP? Did this child apply for help and get turned down? NO she was bullied in a SCHOOL, where by the way offers FREE breakfast,lunch etc. All parents can apply for this too. I don't see the relationship between this comment and the facts of this case.?
I seen mayor Jimmy at wa wa crying about how albero got's bullying on lockdown
To those who referred to Mikayla's "chaotic" home life as the reason for her being a target: Were Sarah Foxwell, God rest her, and her siblings targets of bullying? Their home life was a mess worthy of a reality show on A&E. But, at least they were white.
Nowdays teachers are bullied and are afraid to do anything for fear of the NAACP. I've seen master teachers reduced to tears ... hate to go to school... They turn into "do what you have to do to go home at the end of the day" teachers. All typical of society and our govt. today.
public school is insufficient.
I do 100% agree that bullying has no place in the school system. However, the school can only go so far as punishing the child. Remember, it is not the job of the school system to enstill the values. The parent of the student who is the bully needs to parent her child. For the mother of Mikayla, she needs to request a bully form from the office. The bully report once filled out is turned into authorities as bullying is a hate crime. They will investigate and take proper action. Don't blame Willards. Take the next step.
All children, no matter their color, should be required to follow the same rules or receive the same consequences. When poor behavior is ignored, suspensions may go down but incidents like this increase. We can't be afraid to discipline those who take advantage of others.
I know some teachers that were bullied by staff and had to take a leave, and later can get disability ..so this needs to stop or all kids and teachers will be on some kind asst. Parenting skills , have not been the same since 1980-1990's and teaching . The rules, the not showing they care, love our children, the violence, has all increased but no reason to turn our heads on what is happening now to this little girl. She is only one little voice and I am sure we may see more come to surface. I hope if any teacher is reading this or these comments will weigh in on what the see ,seen or heard in their classrooms? How much voice do they have? Are they told to keep it hush hush? Do they report everytime these things happen? Do they want to because it will GET THEM involved? Are their jobs at stake for not reporting or doing nothing? These are some questions for all the readers.
Nicole: I completely understand where you are coming from and I have absolutely no comment on what is happening in this situation. I don't know the facts and I have no right to comment on it. However, 3:05 had a point - define bullying… if my child says no I don't want to play with you today - is that bullying? Or if a child calls another fat, stupid, etc.. does that reach the level of bullying? Look we were all teased - I was once told: you want to lose 10 ugly pounds real quick - cut off your head and this was at a catholic school! Clearly physical violence is unacceptable on any level, but I think we have to realize that children might not get along or they might not want to play with one another - at what level does it reach bullying? By the way when I was called a name if I went home my parents reminded me again and again that they didn't send me to school to make friends, they send me to get an education and something must have sunk in all 6 of their children when onto college and today are productive members of society.
I think today we are so quick to jump on bullying that we have lost sight of normal child dynamics.
Nichole: i think some of your comments have reached the level of bullying! And by the way were you present when the bullying was going on? You had no problem asking that of another poster. I just find it hard to believe in today's atmosphere that the school is doing nothing - with all the rules and regulations in place they have to reach out to this family and work with them.
7:34 Normal child dynamics are not physically stabbing someone with a paperclip or putting hands on another person period. When children are calling other children names like fat, ugly etc.. yes that is a degree of bullying, and if these kids are doing this already at this age, it will more than likely get worse because their parents are more than likely the ones teaching them this or not caring what they are doing. People do not realize that these actions hurt, and will forever affect these children that this happens to. No one has the right to make another feel this way, that is what's wrong with the world today, too many people not caring about others. What happened to people having compassion for others or even a conscious for that matter. Scary of what type of world this is going to be in the future for children if this is what some consider "normal behavior."
It is funny how you mention bully and everybody gets on a soapbox when nobody knows the real situation my child goes to this school i know the child and have know the mother all my life the comments that were made about a messy home life are true so the ones defending her that say everything is great are liars this child is not being bullied the mother is always looking to play the victim she is in that school every week with some new problem which they bend over backwards to solve the child was not stabbed that was fabricated the school runs a tight ship and would not stand for bullying maybe people should realize the type of mother we are dealing with who is always playing the victim like her prior jail time for attempted murder and yes she is always on fb telling all like how her mom licks them out every other week maybe Nicole you and Jennifer should get a real job since there is so much time on your hands to lie snd slander a wonderful school and staff thst had probided a christmas for these children for a couple years because of the mothers sob story i agree with 7:51 anybody with common sense would know the school would not allow this
And I guess the tech school in Delaware where the poor little girl took her own life didn't allow it either?? Grow up people and wipe the back woods dirt out of your eyes! This is happening everywhere! Your naive to think its not! Doesn't matter what the home life! This child had some sort of situation...deal with it now before it gets worse!
7:54 I clearly stated that physical violence of any kind is unacceptable and by the way the comment that was said to me I think we can all agree was beyond hurtful and some how I managed to get through school, go to college and become a successful small business owner. The difference for me was my parents - my parents taught me how to deal with bullies and name calling and believe in myself and that my life was going to be so much bigger than my school(s). Maybe because I'm older but go back to a high school reunion and don't be surprised to see what the bullies amount too. It's the nerds and the kids that were bullied that go on and have wonderful, successful lives.
I own and run not one but two extremely successful companies, so please don't worry about the time I have on my hands. We all know that this anonymous poster is Jessica - same girl who has had to be blocked from bullying Mikaylas mom on every social media site there is. You are a waste of time. Regardless of how you feel about Mikaylas home life and her mother: she IS being bullied. End of story. Unless you want to post your name and have a REAL conversation about bullying: stop posting here. It's pathetic.
Nicole, thank you so much for your comments and support.
Please do NOT let these Idiots egg you on.
It's more than likely one guy who has a Blog who loves to stir the pot anonymously and is so mental he thinks its funny.
Just ignore the negativity and concentrate on the goal.
As you can now see, this article not only went viral, it is now the #1 Post for the entire week in just several hours, something that has never happened since we started putting up the top 5 articles of the week.
While some are trying to comment saying ll I'm interested in is the hits, BS. My interest is the ATTENTION. My interest is in convincing people to CONTACT BOE.
The nay SAYER, yes, one person, is just upset because he cannot nor ever will be able to be SBYNews.
Thanks for all the comments Folks. Now let's make a difference for this young lady.
6:49 is spot on about the NAACP and the problems they cause at local schools. Many of the trouble makers at SDHS are minorities and the school never follows through with reprecussions and punishments because they are afraid of the blowback from the local chapter.
Someone wrote: "Why would someone lie about being bullied?"
Easy answer: L A W S U I T
As sure as the sun will be up tomorrow, there will be a lawsuit.
8:03 You should learn to spell, and use periods. You are no one to judge anyone I'm sure. Being so defensive as you are when it isn't your battle, seems a bit suspicious. Why would you slander a little girl and her mother like such? I would like to know your past and see what you did. I see you are fast to bring up someone else's past, but yet, not your own. Hmmm, could it be you are ashamed of your own? You tell others to get a job....Do you even have one? I would love to know what others would say about you.
Man there are some RACISTS on this site today.
The NAACP might be over the top on some issues but come on Folks, now you want to blame them for all the things gone wrong with black children in schools?
I can see why Mary Ashante, (sp?) is so frustrated. This is exactly why there is such a divide here on the Shore.
Look in the MIRROR people. IF you want to get ANY clue as to why some people behave the way they do, they learned it at home.
Get over the black vs. white thing, as if the blacks are all going to go away, Idiots! Embrace the UNITY for once in your life, ESPECIALLY where children are concerned.
A child is being bullied and all you've got is that it's the parents fault? I highly DOUBT that the other children bullying this young lady deal with her Mother. Teachers, maybe. Oh, maybe the Teachers are sicking other kids onto this child, NOT!
Grow up people.
And by the way, how many of you contacted the BOE today?
Joe: what idiots are you referring to? For the most part I thought the conversations here were helpful and opened up a important dialog on bullying in our local schools. Yes, some were attacking Mikeayla's home life but Willard's Elementary school was also attacked and it was implied that the school has done nothing in this matter. Which like 8.24 I find hard to believe. Just like Nichole felt the need to defend Mikeayla's home life - the school was also defended. I respect both sides. As for posting anonymous that is what makes your blog one of the best ones I have ever come across - it allows for an open discussion in a very small town. I completely disagree with Nichole on disregarding comments that are anonymous.
Once again Joe, you have done a great service to this community!
anonymous 8:50, thank you for participating. The Idiots in refer to are the obvious ones who are racist and down right rude towards this child.
I have always taken PRIDE in the people of the Eastern Shore for always being there when people are at their lowest point. I take pride in our advertisers who help us "It Forward" to so many people in such need during these hard times.
The I put up this article, (and believe me, we've rejected a LOT of comments) and the worse has come out of some of you.
This is about a CHILD. Good, bad or indifferent, we have all failed if we do not help this child.
When someone goes so far as to reach out to the Press for HELP, the majority of our viewers can be depended upon to show support and make that difference.
I'm truly disappointed.
Just one quick comment - I think we need to separate social media bullying and school bullying. (I'm not applying that to this situation). I am just making a comment. A lot of bullying is happening on social media sites and I know a lot of people will get mad at me, but that is not the school's issue that must and should be controlled by parents.
12:43 PM
You and many others on here, as evidenced by their comments, are part of the reason bullying doesn't stop.
I dare say you and some others are bullies yourselves.
Just what the heck is wrong with some of you? Instead of dealing with this issue, like adults, you pile on the child, the mother, the grandmother, and whoever else your demented minds can think of.
Some of you seem to be saying, it's not true, it must be justified, it's the mothers fault, it's granny's fault, it's the child's fault.
Who really cares? Does it help any to think it is someone's fault? Do you think that the girl cares whose fault it is, outside of the bully itself?
I see why there are so many screwed up kids around here.
Everyone thinks there is some big mystery to solve while not even dealing with the real issue, THE GIRL IS BEING BULLIED.
She is not the only one. Step up to the plate and actually DO something about it and put those pointing fingers in your pocket or somewhere.
How will anyone get any help if you knuckleheads just keep sending the message, it's someone else's fault, it's a rite of passage, there's another side to this story, etc.
Kudo's to all who brought this into the spotlight.
Now is anything going to be done about it or just the same old typical eastern shore response?
The biggest bully I ever dealt with was my second grade teacher. My parents apologized when I was an adult for not dealing with her. This was decades ago so teacher/admin bullying is not new. (Still have memories of that nasty woman).
Nicole said: ".. half her class was chanting "you're half black!"
False.
2 boys - yes. Half a class - no.
What other "facts" did you blow out of proportion?
anonymous 9:34, what does it matter you flaming Idiot!
One thing I can 100% guarantee all of you, 9:34 was NOT in that classroom when it happened, period.
CALL THE BOE TOMORROW PEOPLE.
Fact: Mikayla was inded stabbed multiple times with a paper clip in gym class. The kid who did it did not receive punishments. His grandmother was.called where she stated he hadn't did that before as far as she knew. This incident occurred right after the.incident with the staff member shoving her which is why it may not of been a hot topic in that tight ship that is ran. Fact: When families are given help from the.school especially Christmas it is confidential information known to the guidance counselors and staff. So your professionalism by disclosing that information publicly should be questioned. it is clear you work there. Fact: Last Thursday Mikayla was tormented by 2 boys by chanting Ha Ha you're half black until the teacher.returned to the classroom. Fact: The principal telephoned Mikayla's mother and stated both boys would lose one week recess and a call home. Fact: The boys were at recess yesterday! Fact: Mikayla's mother has been a superb mother since having children amd has.not gotten in trouble with the law since having kids. Fact: Her and her children haveattended the same church since 2006. Fact: Mikayla's mother is a student with a double major, works part time, and owns her an online children's clothing company.
At 8:41 so sorry my phone auto corrects and i didnt use petiods for upu .... Maybe i was just completely disgusted in how much attention this has gotten over something that is not true. This is about the mother who is completely out of control with the situation that was resolved already over one day one comment. Thanks for your concern but i grew up a straight a student went to Willards myself moved on to college do not break the law or ever gotten any police violations went to college and have a very successful job in this community working hard and raising 2 wonderful children. Never did i once slander this child she is a very nice little girl who's mother is getting her negative attention and as for the mother i did't slander her i wrote facts.
Racism, Bullying That is the Mantra of today!!!! So tired of it ....Everyone is trying to make a statement about something being done to him to violate their RIGHTS!!! There are always mischievious kids in school and they should be dealt with by the school and their parents.Sometimes when you label them as a "bully" you are doing that child wrong also. The point should be made that these behaviors can not be tolerated during school. The school should be able to deal with this without having to fear recourse from parents. It all begins at home Teach your children to respect others and there are times and places for certain behavior. Parents should be careful what they say and do because this promotes certain behaviors in your children I feel sorry for teachers and schools now days because they are expected to RAISE the child due to inconsistancys in children's homelife
Get real folks! RACE (leave that crap to Jackson and Sharpton) and how many sides thee are to a story has nothing to do with it! if this child or any child in the school system is be pushed and stabbed with paper clips, whether they BREAK THE SKIN OR NOT????? is totally unacceptable! School officials should have reacted and handled.
Clearly your facts are not facts. Mikayla was stabbed repeatedly. That is not a fabrication. This then makes the idea of you knowing her personally questionable. You would have known such facts.
Bullying is NO ONE FAULT except the PARENTS of the bully. Real parenting would take care of all bullying.
Fact: you are irrelevant.
Fact: Mikayla is being bullied.
Fact: you weren't there.
I stand by my comment I made and I hope and pray that this gets resolved!!! No child should have to deal with this and put up with it. I just hope something gets done soon. Jen you have my full support.
It is apparent that this beautiful little girl is being bullied. Children can be cruel. They tease and bully other students who are different in looks, actions, appear weak[introvert], body language displayed, etc. Adults and in this case teachers must be observant of how children act and react in formal class settings as well as break times such as in the hallways, cafeteria, etc. If this problem isn't stopped, then it is incumbent that parents bind together and stage their group demonstration at the school in this case. Numbers count. Organize in a unified and peaceful way and demand to be heard by the administration and the Board of Education staff. Invite the media and maybe parents and teachers need classes or instruction as to how to handle bullying. Remember, the squeaking axle gets the grease. I recommend that every student be in a class weekly where bullying is discussed and ideas presented as to terminate this sin against others. As a pastor, we know that God wants us to treat others as to how we desire to be treated. Bullying leads to more dangerous actions such as the "knock-out" game,etc.Take action now. Save our children.
I didn't read any other comments , but I will say this:
This is a problem in the Wicomico County Schools , it is ignored most of the time. I'm sure other schools experience the same problem.
The squeaky wheel gets the grease.
10:21 & 11:12 - People with your "Just deal with it" and "Who cares?" type of attitudes are part of the problem...not the solution.
" Fact: When families are given help from the.school especially Christmas it is confidential information known to the guidance counselors and staff. So your professionalism by disclosing that information publicly should be questioned. it is clear you work there.
I'm not so sure this is a fact. For more than 10 years I have been contacted by a school to help with not only Christmas presents, but also school supplies and other necessary items, including paying for haircuts for several needy children. I don't work at the school. A relative used to be a teacher at a particular school one child attended is my relationship. There is nothing confidential about it and though I don't make it a habit of discussing the family, there is nothing to prevent me from doing so. It's not the school who is directly giving the help. The only thing the school keeps confidential is who is giving the items and the giver can waive that if they choose.
no matter whatthis little girl was bullied whether she is black white blue or purple does not matter we are not perfect parents there's no such thing as stopping hypocrite how would you like it if someone said to you take away her child I bet you be really PO'd if someone threatened to call child services last time I checked the mother is back in her child 100 percent that's what a parent should do and also last time I checked if my parents would have been so great to back me when I was bEing bullied i might have not attempted suicide! this is all considered slander against the child and the child's family and can be taken to the proper authorities and I guess with investigation they can find out who this anonymous person is because last time I checked your IP address is encoded.
If I was her mom, and the kids didn't stop picking with her and the school sat idle and did nothing. I'd flat out be up at those other kids houses showing their parents or grandparents or whoever all about bullying. And to the little girl, she ought to just tell those kids f u. You don't matter. You are future trailer trash and meth heads.
I stand up and support Mikayla AND her family. I will be calling BOE today. Shame on anyone who is using her home life as a distraction from the true situation that is going on. Shame on Willards and there supporters for thinking they are above this.
BULLYING has been an issue for a long time and it is rediculous that the parents of the BULLIES do nothing about it. Mikayla is such a good student and a great little girl. She is beautiful and smart and cares about others. What is so wrong about her to bother these other students. It has to stop and stop now. i love you Mikayla. Keep up the great work.
bullying has been here throughout history. yet, we thrived. its a NATURAL part of life...not just in humans. its a way to find a social pecking order.
It amazes me that a lot of people are lashing out at this family and their supporters!! All they're trying to do is raise awareness about bullying and the fact that appropriate reprimanding was not taken by the school. Where in any of that does the mother's past or child's home life come into play?
She was bullied, appropriate actions weren't taken to handle the situation, so now they're going higher up. I would do THE EXACT SAME THING if my child were in that situation!
Yes to 10:38. Going higher up may be a good thing. Those at the central office know a great deal about bullies.
anytime someone feels they need to include 'fact' in their statements tells me they are begging you to believe them and not dig deeper to see their 'facts' are only in their imagination.
well we all know willards has always been a little on the redneck side..lol...Its quite apparent there is bullying going on, on this site.... this blog is known for all the drama queens.
Personally, most of you are not acting like mature adults.
The problem is simple, if the child is or thinks is being bullied it is the responsibility of the school to look into it. As far a multie racial, this should not be an issue, those little boys and their families needs a lesson that it is common for people to marry and co-habitat from different races ... and not uncommon for children to be born from these types of unions..... Wow all of you need to take a chill pill, bullying is unacceptable, take care of the problem move on and yes you have to teach your children there are mean people in this world and you kind of gotta let the mean words roll off your back, but I will reiterate the school should reinforce that name calling, pushing, stabbing etc is not accepted.
ps... I know some words are misspelled, but at least I taught my daughter you can get all upset every single time some says unkind words, and yes when she was bullied the school stepped in.
To You Mikayla, please please understand, even adults can act childish, just smile shake your head and say "Really" hang in there little one, you have so much life ahead of you and in years to come this will just be speck in the amazing life I know you will have
God Bless
No it is not natural 9:09, your an idiot.
12:33 The reason I used "fact" in my comment is because in the context I used it in, is a fact. Appropriate reprimanding was not taken. If so, this whole thing would have been handled by now.
I think it is very important for all of us to remember that the school has not been given a chance to defend itself publicly and they will not have that opportunity to do that - privacy rules prohibit that. There are many dedicated and hard working staff and faculty at Willards who every day are entrusted with the care and education of children. This is the first I have ever heard of a bullying situation at that school - this does not appear to be a trend - I think Joe is right we all need to contact BOE and let our concerns be known.
I have known the mother and family my whole life, and no she's not perfect but who is? Everyone has their highs and lows, Mikayla is a very sweet girl and would not lie. This is a serious problem in a lot of schools and needs to be addressed. Kudos to Jennifer for standing up for her baby!
I've known this family my whole life and so what if they have had some hard times, who doesn't? Shame on the people bashing them, I'm sure you and your home life are far from perfect! Mikayla is a wonderful and sweet young lady and doesn't deserve what she's dealing with, period.
You people blaming the victim and her family are pathetic.School staff obviously covering their asses AND making a poor ethical choice by discussing the victim and her family and their interaction with the school.I thought Somerset County schools were awful,but Wicomico is not much better.It doesn't matter how much you dislike this little girls mother,do your damn job and protect her! Some people have no business working around kids.
Kid's in Wicomico county are bullied everyday i have work in the after school programs where i teach anti - bully classes and martial arts. kids are being bullied at a early age teachers are not taught to deal with this situation and they either tell the child to stop telling, or stay away from the person that is bulling you i feel school needs to be taught on how to deal with this they have no knowledge on what to do
I am the grandmother of a biracial child and the parent of a child who was bullied in school. At one time there were laws on the books that stated that if a child felt unsafe or was emotionally to damaged to attend public school... the school system had to provide a teacher to go to the child's home and teach that child. They fought it everyway they could (even telling me there were not enough teachers to go around) BUT bottom line was I WAS THE LAW AND THEY WERE BOUND BY THE LAW. I would check into that with some of your state legislators and find out if it is still true and if it is... I would demand a teacher be assigned to the child at home until the child gets over this trauma and is able to go back into the school.
Dr. Fredericksen doesn't solve problems. He has been advised of problems and attempts to pass them off! Keep the flier up and around and hope Ron Willey to encourage his buddy John to investigate.
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