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Saturday, December 12, 2009

A Local Family In Need

Hi Joe,

I am writing to you because I read your blog all the time and I know you do a lot of good works and reach a lot of people with the causes you champion.

There is a family that is in need of help right now and I thought you might be able to help with getting the word out.

Here is their story:

Tommy and Beth Phillips and their two children live in Fruitland. The children are now 10 and 12. About 7 years ago their son, Dustin, was diagnosed with cancer and had to have chemotherapy, his right hand was amputated and last year he had cancer on his tongue and the doctors had to remove 1/3 of his tongue. They have long since reached the maximum lifetime medical benefits of $1,000,000.00 and as a result they have to get insurance for him through the government. The only way to get that medical insurance is if they don’t make over a certain amount of money, as a result of all this, the mother had to quit her job, initially to be the primary caregiver to the child, and also because if she works then their son will not have any medical insurance. It is a terrible Catch 22.

They have tried to make the best of the situation and she is homeschooling the children. The salary that Tommy makes is budgeted to the penny for all their bills. They don’t have any extra money for anything. Last week we found out that they are really having a hard time right now. Tommy called a friend of ours last week asking for help. He had gotten a deer but didn’t have the money to take it to the butcher but he said they really needed the food. So, my husband and our friend helped Tommy butcher it so they wouldn’t be without food. We have helped them some but their needs are too great for us to make an impact. Just in the past few months they have had their heat pump go bad, the dryer died, their stove only has 1 burner that works and he had to get tires on his truck so that he could make it to work. As a result of the chemotherapy that Dustin had his baby teeth have never fallen out so his teeth are coming in all crooked. They have to have 11 teeth pulled at $100.00 per tooth. The insurance will not cover any of that, nor will it cover any portion of the braces that he needs. They said last weekend they had $22.00 leftover after they paid their bills and they got $10.00 in food and $12.00 in gas so he could get to work. They have to take Dustin to Johns Hopkins a few days after Christmas for a checkup and they don’t have the money for gas and parking for that. The list just goes on and on. They have had to declare bankruptcy and are 3 months behind in their mortgage payments.

These are good people that have had a rough time the last 7 years as a result of all the medical issues with their son. This could happen to any of us.

Joe, it would be a huge blessing if any of your readers could help this family out. I don’t know if there is a dentist out there that may be willing to donate their
services to this family to help out. It would be wonderful if anyone else would be able to help them out by monetary donations or gift cards for gas, grocery stores, Walmart, anything at this point would be a huge help to them.

If anyone can help them out they can mail their help to : Tommy and Beth Phillips, 104 Walden Drive, Fruitland MD 21826

Thanks for sharing this with everyone Joe.

Teresa H.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to you. I am sorry our government make people live in poverty to be able to help them expecially when they are actually willing to work to help support themselves.

Michelle said...

Depending on the sizes of the kids I may be able to donate clothes. If you are able to post sizes that would be great! I will do what I can help along with my family It's great to pass it on

Anonymous said...

Wish I had known about this earlier. I have some items I can donate. Also, we have some cash paying jobs that we can offer if that is of interest.

Anonymous said...

THANKS FOR POSTING STORIES LIKE THIS JOE-----HELPING OTHERS IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT! EW

Anonymous said...

village of hope on lake st is a dental facility that takes patients and they pay on a sliding scale. would be worth checking into. also, what about health insurance through the state? also based on income.

Anonymous said...

Teresa, please post the sizes of everyone in the family. I don't have much but I believe in helping those who need it. Have you contacted either the Fruitland Police Dept, the Fruitland Fire Dept or Red Men? I know these three are in Fruitland and that they do help people.

Anonymous said...

The fire department can request donations from Redmen's. They are only allowed by IRS to donate to non-profit organizations. The fire department could possibly help do this for you...

signed, a redmen's member.

Anonymous said...

I will turn their name into the Red Men lodge for consideration of a Christmas basket. I will need to know more partculars on the kids. I see they are 10 & 12 but need to know boy / girl and which one which age.

Richard Hall
Improved Order of Red Men

Anonymous said...

This pisses me off!! We send money over seas and have americans here in need and they have to turn to a blog!! wtf?? Not that the blog is a bad thing but they shouldnt have too. The gov should help people in need here in the USA

Anonymous said...

r they still in need of a stove??? and heat pump??let me know asap

Anonymous said...

Dustin is the oldest of the 2 children.

Anonymous said...

Makes you wonder, could this be the family the gentleman was selling wreaths to help? Sad the sender of the photos didn't bother to ask him who the people in need were instead of pointing a finger.

Anonymous said...

no, this family is not the person selling wreaths,-----to annoymous 8:08am i think the stove has been taken care of but I will find out about the heat pump

Anonymous said...

Here's the website for MHIP - Maryland Health Ins Plan. This insurance is based on income.

http://www.marylandhealthinsuranceplan.state.md.us/

Anonymous said...

The heat pump is working at the moment but it is in bad shape...
The bank is not working with these people to redo their loan which is what I thought the money was given to banks but no they are sitting on it or giving out bonus checks to employees or CEO's...

Anonymous said...

I turned this letter over to a local church who hopefully will be helping out with groceries soon. My son (god bless him) has been putting together a "christmas bag" of things he no longer needs. We only live a few streets aways...would they mind just anyone stopping by ??? And can you post sizes too for the whole family ??

Also TLC Dental in Princess Anne works on a sliding scale too.

Anonymous said...

I would LOVE to help this family i have tons of stuff that i can give even for the kids christmas, where can i take them? I would love to have a contact number for someone to find out sizes & what kind of stuff they like, as far as toys for christmas maybe?