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Sunday, December 15, 2019

Sex blogger gives advice to men whose wives won't have sex with them

A sex blogger is providing advice to men whose wives have stopped having sex with them.

Nadia Bokody, who is from Australia, posted a YouTube video on Monday to help husbands navigate their “sex-starved” relationships by giving them the tools they need to get their wives’ sex drive back on track.

Bokody said that, contrary to popular belief, a woman’s lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom is not tied to a declining libido. In fact, she said, it’s likely always because of a lack of interest in their partner.

“Male desire and female desire work in totally different ways,” Bokody said. “Guys expect their female partners to get turned on in the same way and in the same frequency that they do.

https://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/sex-blogger-advice-men-wives-wont-have-sex-with-them

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

So true

Anonymous said...

I guess that's why people who are married 30+ years get divorced and the rest of us are wondering why now?
It takes an effort to keep things going in the bedroom. I know i try. My wife is almost celibate. So, maybe she's 'just not interested in me".

lmclain said...

How about you lose that pot belly, brush your teeth more than once a day, help around the house, and tell her you love her once in a while (with flowers or a weekend away)??
You might have been a stud muffin 30 years ago, but now, you're 60 lbs overweight and your clothes smell like an ashtray.
Yeah, women are HOT for THAT.

Pass that Red Man.

Anonymous said...

to 7:57AM:
Reminds me of what the writer and humorist Dave Barry said years ago.... he believes women form a new opinion of their own physical appearance and attractiveness EVERY SINGLE DAY of their lives when they look in the mirror, whereas men form a single opinion of themselves in middle or high school that NEVER CHANGES throughout the course of their life, no matter how they change (for the worse). Haha. True in many ways.

Anonymous said...

Yes - men it seems are complicated in their marriage. Alot let themselves go - overweight etc. Women do the same. I believe alot has to do with growing apart - interest change with age so does sex - women want romance - men -sex.

Anonymous said...

A bowl of ice cream is just as satisfying and when you’re done with it, set it on the nightstand. No need to talk about unimportant things, admit faults, cuddle with it and sweat, the list goes on and on.

Anonymous said...

No sex = Trade them in for a New model !!! LOL LOL

They get Spoiled and think they don't have to do anything !!!

Funny, when they were dating they were HOT , but later
when married they are NOT !!!!

Anonymous said...

Biggest Reason for DIVORCE Along with $$$$

Hint Hint !!! Always more fish in the sea baby !!!!

Anonymous said...

Sex is Not the same for men & women anyway.
Women get it whenever they want & take it for granted
while men have to wait or go without !!! FACT

Alot of women don't care if they ever get any & even Fake
how much they enjoy it or not !!! Men enjoy it more alot
of the time !!

Anonymous said...

Wives won't have sex with them unless there's something else in it for them, like when they were "searching" for a husband. You know, restaurant dining, flowers, jewelry, clothes, dates, and other stuff. And that's why most women are just practicing the world's oldest profession. Like the commercial, "Every kiss begins with Kay." That says it all. What the blogger is saying, is once women have what they want (marriage) you have to find other things to bribe them with for sex. Men think they don't have to bribe their wives once they are married. So get a divorce and start over. The ex-husband will find many other women that will play the game, until they get married.....

Anonymous said...

Marriage is the price men pay for sex, and sex is the price women pay for marriage. But when women get that marriage license. they don't think they own their husbands anything. And the husband is left a sexless future ex- husband. 50% of marriages end in divorce. No wonder.

Anonymous said...

Also men ARE discriminated against by courts & end up
Loosing in Divorce Most of the time & Loose too much !!!
I even know of women who were the One WHO ran out on
their Husband , not the other way around, and still WON
all kinds of ways in their divorce , getting too much from
their man. Not right !!!

Whoever did the running out should be the Looser & get 0 !!

SEX is Not Free !

must be in Love said...

Menopause can be a nuisance in a relationship..

.
particularly if you wife,

girlfriend.

life mate perfer to ride it out without meds

Anonymous said...

If women use sex to GET a husband, why won't they use sex to KEEP a husband? Because they don't care. They got what they wanted (marriage)and they don't care what the husband wants. When a husband becomes enlightened and realizes how he was duped, it is time to cut the losses and leave. Get the divorce. Don't be afraid to walk out. Buying my ex out was the best money I ever spent. Spend the money and be happy again. Now I'm making more money, and it's all mine.

Anonymous said...

Applies to men too... they get bald, fat and lazy... really keeps the spark doesn't it? Takes two to tango, sparky...

Anonymous said...

Amen to that!