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Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Is It Ever OK To Spank?

The image of Adrian Peterson’s son’s legs has ignited a welcome cultural conversation. This is unusual. Most of these contrived “conversations” are efforts to take one headline and shoehorn it into a narrative that liberals want to advance, usually about race and racism. Those “conversations” are never truthful.

But the discussion of a 4-year-old boy’s wounds has elicited some brutally honest commentary.

Writing for CNN, Steven Holmes blasted what he regards as excessive tolerance for spanking and child abuse in the black community. He dispatches the “I was whipped and I turned out all right” excuse. Holmes cites the abundant research showing that “spanking inhibits the learning process. … It leads to anger, depression, violence and alcohol and drug abuse. It breeds hostility toward authority … and spawns other antisocial behaviors.” Physical punishment, he continues, “is associated with legions of sullen, angry, violence-prone boys.”

Peterson advanced the “mean streets” argument. “I could have been one of those kids that was lost in the streets without the discipline instilled in me by my parents.” Holmes replies: “That may have been true for Peterson. But what also could be true is that the streets may not have been so mean if they were not populated by so many kids who are angry at the world because, among other things, they were spanked.”

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10 comments:

Anonymous said...

yes when other things don't work. it should be up to the parents

Anonymous said...

My wife loves it!

Anonymous said...

If the police can tackle and rought up a child for not obeying them then yes a parent should be allowed to spank. Spank yes..... BEAT NO.

Anonymous said...

no if and butts about it; a definitive YES; as long as it is not "abusive" or over the top. I don't care what the rest of the world says. The Bible says "spare the rod, spoil the child". it's obvious in today's society that parents either abuse or don't spank or discipline at all. shame...

Anonymous said...

Absolutely yes, just look at Justin Bieber to see what happens when you don't.

Anonymous said...

Look at baby thugs in the news...not enough spankings, WHIPPINGS have been missing to darn long!!!

Anonymous said...

NO,,, spanking is proof that it take more time and intelligence to educate a child. When you are lazy and don't give your children time to explain right from wrong..an instant spanking is soooooo easy. Children deserve far more. For those of you that say you were spanked and you turned out OK....well.... if you were not spanked maybe you would have turned out far better than just ok.

Anonymous said...

IN GRADE SHOOL SCHOOL I WAS SPANKED ON MY HANDS SEVERAL TIMES THROUGH THE 4TH GRADE AND IT TAUGHT ME A LOT OF THINGS. I CRIED SEVEERAL TIMES BUT I LEARNED.MY PARENTS SAID YOU EARNED IT AND DID MORE HOME RESTRICTIONS. NO PROBLEM ANDE I TRETED MY KIDS THE SAME WAY.

John B. said...

Please consider what lesson a child learns from spanking - that it is ok to hit someone when you don't like what they are doing. Resolving a conflict with an angry action with reinforce this quickly. I would caution parents to consider what let up to the situation and be proactive with regard to education and communication.

John B.

Anonymous said...

8:22 So sorry for you and your children. P.S. Caps are for screaming. Don't think you meant to scream did you? Made my point...