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Sunday, April 03, 2011

Live Today Because Tomorrow Is Not Promised


V  One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore". No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute." Sometimes, what we care about the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, say "I love you."

So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick. This is true for marriage.....And old cars... And children with bad report cards, and dogs with bad hips, and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.

Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a sister-in-law after divorce. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.

Life is important, like people we know who are special.. And so, we keep them close!

I received this from someone who thought I was a 'keeper'! Then I sent it to the people I think of in the same way... Now it's your turn to send this to all those people who are "keepers" in your life, including the person who sent it, if you feel that way.  Suppose one morning you never wake up, do all your friends know you love them?

I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow or next week, and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed, friendships that needed rekindling or three words needing to be said.

Let every one of your friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile
 can do.  And just in case I'm gone tomorrow...

I LOVE YA!!!

Live today because tomorrow is not promised. 

3 comments:

Courtney said...

So glad to see that you posted this its an awesome and meaning full

Anonymous said...

This is a wonderful piece. Having lost my wife almost five years ago, I think of all the things I could have done or could have done better. One never knows the future, so let every minute count.

Mildred said...

Joe, it is refreshing to read something so uplifting and helpful to me at this time of grief.You are truly an insightful gentleman. Please give us a weekly article like this to read and reflect upon. We all have spiritual and personal needs as well as the needs for news.