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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

How Many Times a Week Is Normal?

One of the questions I get asked a lot as a sex therapist is - How many times a week is it normal to be having sex to have a normal sex life? The most important thing that I tell everyone is that it's personal, meaning that it's about YOUR level of desire and how often you want to be having sex coupled with how often your partner wants to be having sex.

If both of you are OK with having sex once a week or twice a week or twice a month, even-- great! As long as neither one of you is feeling deprived or feels you're missing out on having the sexual intimacy, your sex life is up and running and working for the two of you.

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14 comments:

  1. Once a week? Twice a week??

    Get real!! How about every night??

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  2. For me it's 12 times a year. January Febuary, March, April, etc.

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  3. Wow, my wife tells me once a month is normal. Now I really feel like a naive uninformed liberal.

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  4. With her I would need once a day.. just sayin'...

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  5. it depends if you only count the wife......

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  6. my goverment gives me sex daily.

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  7. Seven times a week.

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  8. depends on how old you are. when i was 17, it was 2 or 3 times a day...
    not so much now, lol...

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  9. depends on when her husband comes home

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  10. I saw a sex-therapist couple who said that not a day goes by that they do not have sex. All I can say is more power to them.

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  11. Sooner or later your parents slow down your sex life. Father Time and Mother Nature.

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  12. 9:25 PM

    lol I like that one. So true.

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  13. funny how they show 2 smokin hot people, most of us look at our partner, that ain't what we got.we DID, but no more, that's what marriage does. love it 6:51.

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  14. 8 times a week. Once a day and twice on Sunday

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